Everything you need to know about using My Erotic Memories.
My Erotic Memories lets you create an intimate quiz for your partner. You choose the questions, send them a link, and once they answer, you can view their confessions through your results link. It's that simple — no accounts, no sign-ups, no passwords.
Save your links. When you create a quiz, you receive two links — one for your partner to take the quiz, and one for you to view the results. These links are the only way to access your quiz. There is no account to log into, no password to reset, and no way for us to look up your quiz. If you lose your links, your quiz is gone forever.
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My Erotic Memories does not have an email server. When you tap the "Email" button on the quiz creation page, it opens your own email app (Gmail, Outlook, Apple Mail, etc.) with a pre-written message. The email is sent from your personal email address, not from us. We never see, store, or have access to any email address — yours or your partner's.
If the Email button doesn't seem to work, your device may not have a default email app configured. In that case, use the Copy button to copy the link and paste it into any message yourself — text, DM, email, whatever you prefer.
The short answer: almost nothing. As you browse the site, you'll notice we never ask for personal information. There are no forms requesting your real name, email, phone number, or address anywhere in the quiz experience.
The only personal data we store is the email addresses of users who voluntarily joined our waitlist for the upcoming AI-powered version of the site. That's it — no other personal information is kept. Quiz data on our server is limited to the questions you selected and the answers your partner gave, identified by a random ID that means nothing to anyone — including us. Standard web server logs may record IP addresses for security purposes, but these are never connected to quiz content.
We designed My Erotic Memories so that even we cannot figure out who created or took a quiz. There are no accounts linking quizzes to people. There are no email addresses tying content to identities. The random quiz ID is the only identifier, and it carries no personal meaning. Your confessions belong to you and your partner — not to us.
If you still have your partner's quiz link, you can recover your results link from it. The quiz link looks like this:
myeroticmemories.com/quiz.html?id=abc12345-...
To view your results, simply change quiz.html to results.html in the URL. Your results link uses the same ID:
myeroticmemories.com/results.html?id=abc12345-...
That's it. The quiz link and the results link share the same unique ID — the only difference is the page name.
If you've lost both links, there is unfortunately no way to recover your quiz. Because everything is anonymous, we have no way to search for it, look it up, or connect it to you. This is the trade-off of true privacy — your data is yours alone, and only accessible through your links.
Only someone with the results link can view the answers. The link contains a long, randomly generated ID that is practically impossible to guess. As long as you don't share your results link with others, your results stay between you and your partner.
Yes. If you want to change your answers, simply open the quiz link again and retake it. Your new responses will overwrite the previous ones. There is no need to delete anything — just answer again.
If you open your results link before your partner has finished the quiz, you'll see a "Patience, darling" waiting screen. The page will automatically refresh every 60 seconds to check for completion. You can also check back manually anytime — your results link never expires.
No. Quiz links and results links do not expire. Your partner can take the quiz whenever they're ready, and you can view the results at any time after they finish — days, weeks, or months later.
My Erotic Memories works in all modern browsers — Chrome, Firefox, Safari, Edge — on both desktop and mobile devices. For the best experience, make sure your browser is up to date.
Yes. Creating quizzes, taking quizzes, and viewing results are all completely free. There are no hidden charges, no premium paywalls for basic features, and no credit card required.
If you need help with something not covered here, use the feedback form on the homepage to send us a message. We read every one.
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